Tuesday, November 15, 2005

Invasion of Privacy

Privacy has many meanings to me.

       I am one who prefers to lurk in shadows, coveting my private times, my private spaces, my private thoughts, and my private writings.

       Although I write in a public forum such as this, I still consider it a private matter. No family members know of my space here, no 3 dimensional friends know of it's existence, no one knows about my space, unless I've showed them the pathway. If you are reading this because you've stumbled upon my pages via other journals and such, I still consider that part of the private club we all have enlisted in.  

       Therefore, on the premise that these pages are a private matter, that contains my extremely personal thoughts and musings, it would be of no surprise that I'm extremely upset about signing onto my journal and being accosted by flashing lights of Quizno's ad banners.

       I used to believe the worst thing someone could do within my personal pages was leave a nasty comment, therefore defiling my personal walls and confines with heartless or callous notions. I stand corrected now.

       What I never dreamed would happen, that people within the confines of AOL corporate, would take it upon themselves to sneak into my personal pages during the middle of the night, hijack the entire upper portion of my journal and defile it with advertisements of companies I may or may not even like.

       Not only is it ugly, it upsets the balance, the ambiance, the peaceful appreciation I had always felt within the walls of my personal space.

I did not give permission for anyone to change the walls of my personal space.
I did not open the doors of my personal space to be spray painted with AOL graffiti.
I did not condone or warrant any such changes in something that carries my personal screen name, that I pay a high price per second online, and claim as my own.

Should I stand to be corrected? Is this space not something that I personally created, that I have labored with over the course of a year? That I've placed my thoughts, my emotions, my tears and my joys within? If I had known................that someone else could come in at any time and dictate what was contained in my personal pages, I would have chosen a different safe route to write my words.

It's not even about the hideous advertisements across the entire top of my journal. This is about an invasion of privacy and that is something that I cannot stand for. No warning, no choice, no voice, no course of action. I won't stand for an invasion of privacy in my home, how am I to be expected to accept this invasion of my personal web space?

I can't and I won't.

I have seen where in entries, a writer has blasted another, a situation, and commenters come along and agree and sometimes, things become a lynch mob, lemmings style party. Usually, I do not condone this type of behavior.

But on such a thing as blatant invasion of privacy, I will hope, others will voice their thoughts, and just possibly, many voices can make a difference.


AOL writes on their feedback page
"We are committed to putting you and your family first in everything we do"

If this is true, they will quietly apologize for invading my personal space
and quickly remove their propaganda from my walls.
Otherwise, my clone journal, created specifically for me to muse around with my novel writing, will become my refugee journal.

http://intheshadowoftheiris.blogspot.com/

22 comments:

Anonymous said...

I agree with all that you said...I've also written my letter too. Here is my other journal so you can continue reading if you like...

http://derasta.bravejournal.com/

Anonymous said...

http://detachedandindifferent.blogspot.com/

No Manilow today.

Anonymous said...

I hope, hope,hope.. because I love my ~J so much and would hate to see it deleted, that they get a clue and get the adds off our paid accounts.. if not I have a new home too and AOL will be cancelled.

http://www.myspace.com/hunybea4him

I will try and keep up with your new home too.

Much Love,
Mary

Anonymous said...

I hope, hope,hope.. because I love my ~J so much and would hate to see it deleted, that they get a clue and get the adds off our paid accounts.. if not I have a new home too and AOL will be cancelled.

http://www.myspace.com/hunybea4him

I will try and keep up with your new home too.

Much Love,
Mary

Anonymous said...

I have to agree with you and have voiced my opinion about the invasion of my personal space. I also have another journal....  http://prissycrissysmind.blogspot.com
Cristina

Anonymous said...

^5 Rebecca!  I agree wholeheartedly.  Not only is this an invasion of privacy, but those banners also interfere with the writing process.  With all that flashing going on, how is a person supposed think?  This is horrible, awful, etc., etc.  I will, and have, voiced my opinion with AOL.  AOL may want advertising money, but these journals I thought were created for the individual and one's private thoughts.  I am appalled.  

B.

Anonymous said...

I feel like it's cramping my style.  It kind of feel like an eye sore.  LOB went to blogspot too, until AOL comes to there senses.  I think I might go there myself.

Anonymous said...

So glad you are speaking out about this.  You're right, voices spoken in volumes can make a difference.  There seems to be a lot of changes taking place lately.  Not sure why they feel the need to do this.  Obviously they make their money online!  Hopefully you/we will be heard!!   Michelle

Anonymous said...

Hey girlfriend, here's my new (and hopefully temporary!)spot:
http://itsallaboutmeithink.blogspot.com/
Come by and visit!

Chris

Anonymous said...

Here is my new location:
http://animalnaturespirits.blogspot.com/
I hopefully will find time in the next few days to learn all the trick of the trade at this new site.  See you over on the LIGHT side!  I hope that our stay there is temporary . . . . but I will plan on the long haul.
Peace,  Virginia

Anonymous said...

Hi Rebecca- here is where you can find me until (hopefully) AOL gets rid of the banners.  http://msyahtzee.blogspot.com/ -Kari

Anonymous said...

I will not write there again until the ads come down... and the essay contest is dead in the water.
judi

Anonymous said...

Tis sad, here is were I will be http://doinitmyownway46collage.blogspot.com/
Red

Anonymous said...

Like you, there are many J-landers that feel the same way about this, including myself. Invasion of Privacy it is.

Quizno's though, I have not seen that one, just Bank of America over here. (Which I have never heard of before in my life, so I really dont want it on my journal.)

Take Care and maybe just maybe AOL will listen to all of us. HA!

Amanda :)
http://journals.aol.com/trickeytricky/CountryMyKindaLivin

Anonymous said...

I just hate it that everyone is so upset
Marti

Anonymous said...

People don't understand that our journals are a part of us, like a piece of our soul.  And to think that our soul is considered easy barter for ad revenue hurts me to the very core of the soul they want to sell so cheaply.

~~ jennifer
http://jenniferandwalter.blogspot.com/

Anonymous said...

I haven't been able to write an entry in my aol blog since the ads went up but I still have that one on blogspot that I never used that much well now I guess I will and I agree about the ads being an invasion of our privacy

-Kristina
Now At: http://brokenflight.blogspot.com/
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Anonymous said...

Rebecca,

Obviously I respect your decision!  Please, whatever happens, for and for all of us, don't stop writing.

Peace,  Virginia
http://animalnaturespirits.blogspot.com/

Anonymous said...

Thx for posting your new address. I'm still undecided as to where I will finally fall. I really like blogspot but having a tough time with how it all works. ~ Lori

Anonymous said...


Interesting isn't it? Here's a source for more info:

http://hometown.aol.com/verypinkinside/infosource.html



V.

Anonymous said...

You stated your case quite elloquently!  Respect your decision, but still sorry to see you pack and leave.  Definately will be by your spot at Blogger.  -  Barbara

Anonymous said...

I didn't like the idea of my son reading my journal because I was just starting to feel comfortable writing some entries that were a bit more "feeling" in nature.   Suddenly I felt like I had no privacy.  

So when the ad controversy 'popped up', along with the fact that I was locked out of my journal, it became just another incentive for me to move to a new place.  

My decision to move really was based on my privacy.  

~Sie http://siepfft.blogspot.com/