This way, when I sign on, I can leisurely go through and enjoy every precious comment alert I receive. I believe I'll finally be able to respond quickly and in a timely manner to the wonderful personal emails I receive. After doing this dramatic action this morning, I got home this evening and had only 7 emails. 2 comments, 3 personal emails, and 1 writers notification and 1 spam. It felt good.
I'll find a way to keep up with everyone. I do enjoy visiting others journals. I'm sure most of you have been comment spammed by me more then once. Thats my form of catching up when I haven't been by in a while.
The only downside to catching up in one fell swoop like that, is that I've found more then once, something has happened to someone, something I feel I should have been on top of things right away to offer support, thoughts, congrats, you name it, and I come along a week later.
Hmmm, maybe this is me once again admitting I'm not the Superwoman I wish I was. Having a full time job, being a full time Mommy <my entire full time job is structured around my girls schedules> attempting to fit in writing a book, keeping up with extended family, friends, life, and of course, we can't forget about those darling things that NEVER go away like laundry, dishes, mowing, and every other household chore bestowed upon me. Toss in journaling, well, that could be a part time job like hours if you let it, and at times, it seems I've done exactly that.
In a conclusion type caveat, I guess what I'd like to say at this point in time to those who I've always read your journals. I'm still reading, and you'll know when I've been by to catch up. The times may not be as frequently, but trust me, you'll know...............
Now, I'm taking back journaling to a more personal level. I think thats what my entries will reflect from now on. Hopefully my cutting back will afford the extra time to post more often.
Thats all, just writing out my new game plan. Write all week, catch up with other journals sporadically when time provides and use my Sundays as comment spam catching up day~~
By the way, do you all realize just how much we all write??? Well let a person who had over a hundred alerts clicked tell it like it is.............A LOT :o)
Wait, come back, one more thing and it's important. I've really enjoyed it when some of you have written me a personal email letting me know about a special entry you've done. For those I always get right over, and I invite everyone and anyone to drop me a personal line when you've written something you want to make sure I see. Remember, I don't have my alerts anymore, so I'll be fishing in the dark so to speak~~~ Thanks!!
The written word is the choicest of all relics~~

22 comments:
Rebecca: I can relate to this journal post!! I have started being much more selective in the journals I actually still want to read. I got a little too crazy with the alerts as well and realized later I had not been very discriminating. As you can tell, I still want to be alerted on some ... Yes, you should feel special. LOL Take a breather. I'd be delighted for you to visit me anytime you can.
Donna
I think it is a fantastic game plan!
betty
yep.. thinking of doing something simlar. I was away from the puter for almost two weeks and had almost 900 e-mails and the majorty of them were journal alerts.
You're right - the only down side to J-land is not being physically capable of keeping up with all the great reads you want to.
Tilly
http://journals.aol.co.uk/tillysweetchops/Adventuresofadesperatelyfathouse/
Rebecca Rebecca----
I have the alert woes meself. CHris and I did a quick email back and forth when he announced he was taking a break. For the same reasons. My puter was down and I only had access to read while at work. Time just wouldnt permit me to comment. After one weekend and 600 emails on Monday, it was overwhelming. I have distanced myself from the puter(and accomplished ALOT!).....My writing feeling very banal as of late, and very very uninspired. So now I have retreated into lurker status. And feel the pangs of guilt as well. Not so librated. :(
Glad you are still around....
Peace
Jodi
Hi Rebecca - I can relate to this. I've started using Bloglines and it's so much easier! ~ Lori
Good for you.
Last thing anyone needs is just 400 more things nagging at you to get at.
Journaling should be guilt free.
Put a Smile on your face and a song in your heart.
Wishing you health, happiness and laughter.
TJ~
http://journals.aol.com/paisleyskys/PaisleySkys
http://journals.aol.com/vaultofsecrets/MoonDancer
Dang! I guess I'll have to settle for spam...I didn't make the list! I SOO feel the finger clicked in interest pain! I have been considering exactly this. You're brave...but time will tell ;) ;)...time will tell...from one j'addict to another. ;) C. http://journalsa.ol.com/gdireneoe/thedailies
Rebecca you have voiced what every single one of us is going through...I am taking a sabatical myself. I guesss I will be a kurker from now on; I have you saved in my Favorites and I will check in weekly. I have found it is nice to see the flow over a period of days. I can promise you everyone here would much rather read what you create on the page as we all regard your writing as the best in J-Land. It is so simple if something profound is written to send you a link. I only hope you do not receive 400 links...lol...do not feel guilty...everyone is experiencing this same difficulty...there is just so much time in the day ! Thank you for your comments. your inspiration. and creativity,cMp
http://journals.aol.com/courtenaymphelan/WISDOM/ By the way could you read this entry right now? JOKING!!!
I don`t keep alerts anymore either....I want to be able to read and make comments because something speaks to me and I can connect to it.....otherwise it`s just a job
I cut off my alerts as well and signed up for Bloglines. When i was entering in my favorites into the my feeds, I realized I had a problem when I went over 100 blogs. When my computer died in July and I came back to 999 emails and countless ones that hadn't been able to go through, I knew I had to make some changes. I hardly comment anymore on anybody's journal, but try to actually say something of worth when I do. I deleted my hit meter after it got wiped out a third time and realized that tracking my readability is interfering with what it is I'm trying to say. Now, what I want to say is the question.
I think you made a good decision. I had to weed down my alerts too and I have a big list that I do hit regularly. But it is easier than seeing a mailbox full!
I am glad that you have found a better way for you! Being a mom and working full time you sure have your hands full!!!
Be well,
Dawn
http://journals.aol.com/princesssaurora/CarpeDiem/
Poetry:
I've had to do the same thing, it got to be where I was dreading clearing out my emails. I'll continue to be one of your loyal readers. I'm hooked like the worm on the hook.
derek
Mind
like a hook
at the end of a line
Dangling, beneath the water
Bait it- then
wait.
Ideas
dart around
like silver minnows in a wave
sparkly in the sun
there
then gone
Catch one (if your lucky)
Quick- write it down
weigh it, clean it
Bait the hook again
Hope to catch the BIG ONE
Don't want to get hung up on the old tires or boots
Hey- got a bite
I think it's a big one.
Oops...
Got away!
It really does get to the point when you have to say, "Whoa, wait a minute here...I have to make a change" when it comes to journal alerts. I have about 15 and that's a good number for me. There are so many journal writers out there with so many important things to share, yet it's just not possible to keep up with them all. I'll be seeing you.... take care! Michelle ;o)
great game plan
Well done! Bravo for you! I've actually set aside time in the morning and evening to answer journal comments. I don't know that I've the courage you do, however, to make that dramatic change. I think, instead, I'll simply list my regular reads in my favorites bar?
Hrmmmmm
Peace and love,
Charley
http://journals.aol.com/CDittric77/Courage
Earlier this year I was making a weekly jaunt to Cincinnati for the wekends due to some family thing....I had to turn off my alerts. It was overwhelming! Now I use bloglines and just click on when I'm able. It's great. So easy to add and delete.
I recently did something very similar to this. I was coming home from work, and it was taking me all evening to get thru my mailbox :( And, I wasn't enjoying other things... like G. and Morgan and watching a good movie occasionally. So, what I did was I went thru and picked only my very, very favorites to leave on alerts (and a few where the people are going thru something and I wanted to stay current.. oh, and you made the cut <g>). Then, in my favorites I made a couple of folders. One for the journals I had left on alerts (in case I needed the address for anything), another marked 'everyday' if I have the time. One marked weekly, one marked occasionally, and one marked new. Now, what I do is if I have time after e-mail in the evening I check my everyday folder. On Sat and Sun I manage to get thru the weekly folder, and if I have anytime left over, I check my occasionally folder. The folder marked new is for just found journals. I try to check them a couple of times a week till I figure out which folder they actually belong in... Looking back, that seems a little complicated, but really it isn't <LOL>
http://journals.aol.com/astaryth/AdventuresofanEclecticMind
Rebecca, I like the iris pic. Wise move to cut back. Saving special journals in your "Favorites" works. Take care and I hope you enjoy the newly acquired time to do the things you love to do.
B.
I had to cut my journal reading down to just 20 ....it was taking over my life hehe
These 20 are varied , different , all original and thought provoking , funny and sad too.....and now i feel i can at least comment properly and not just skim over a 100 entries ....its a much better way to go i think x
Bloglines.com
-Paul
Enjoyed your entries...and looked through your archives...this one caught my eye..the Iris and the entry. Yes, turning off the alerts is the best way to go! Hopefully you will continue to get lost of entries...you will probably never see this one thought...:).....
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